Educating Children

Luqman is an expert on wisdom. However, about who and where the origins of the legendary figure, the commentators scholars have different opinions. Abdullah bin Umar Al-Khattab said: "I heard the Messenger of Allah SAW said, which means' In fact I said that Luqman was not a prophet, but a servant of the Lord protected, many engage in meditation and good faith. He loves God and God's love for her. Therefore, he was awarded the wisdom of wisdom. "(Mutafaq 'Alaih). To be sure, the name of Luqman immortalized be one letter names in the Qur'an. Luqman's advice to his son who submitted them wisely, as mentioned in the letter Luqman (31) verses 13 to 19 is the ideal model of children's education in Islam. In Islam, will Luqman al-Hakim in educating their children need to be constantly held by Muslim parents, because the advice-petuahnya dinukilkan in the Qur'an. And the Qur'an will serve advice and how Lukman educate their children in a special letter letter named Lukman, particularly in paragraph 13 to 19. "Luqman is the best source to be learned relating to the education of children," said Ali Nurdin, dean of the Faculty of Science University Ushuluddin Quran (PTIQ), Jakarta. Doctoral this Qur'anic commentary continues, "although among mufassirin Lukman figure is still being debated, but the important value that can be drawn from the story of Luqman is a maximum effort he had done to educate their children. No need to fuss about how Luqman achieve a glorious position with the inclusion of his name in the Qur'an. "More important is how to take heed of endeavor that he attempts to do in educating children." According to Sharif Masyah Hade, professor of Arabic Literature Department Adab, Luqman believed to be a man who lived between the time of Prophet Moses and Prophet Muhammad SAW in the vicinity of Beach Kulthum (Red Sea) or in the area of ​​Ramallah, Palestine. In some details, Luqman is mentioned as a black slave known by the wise counsel-counsel. "Because of the time there is no other figure who can be role models, then the advice Lukman always used people in his day." "The Wisdom of Luqman the most prominent, as stated in the Qur'an, which is testament given Luqman to his son. "Thus the Qur'an mufassirin testament Lukman believes it is a special technique for the Adam in educating children," said Sharif. (See the Miraculous Luqman on p. 3). When you look at will-a will Luqman of the Qur'an, at least there are three main points that need to be observed and practiced in daily life of the parents for their children were born and grew up as devout and pious Muslims to Allah SWT. The first point, namely the problem ketauhidan (faith). Before teaching something else on her children, Luqman establish the basic framework of faith in Allah Almighty as the main foundation to form a child's personal deeds. His teachings are also delivered with compassion. However, the selection of editors said 'Yaa Bunayya' (O my children) who used Lukman in calling faith to their children, so implying that parents also need to take a touch of affection and tenderness in educating their children. "The word Yes Bunayya contains a sense of spoiled, tenderness, and intimacy. This means that parents do not need to instill faith in indoctrination, full of threats, and without empathy. " The second point, namely the ability of God endowed Luqman chose everywhere in terms of priority to be given to children. In Luqman verse translation of Letter 13-19, "Luqman utilize intelligence and cleanliness of his grace to instill faith first before moving on charges Shari'a and morals." As for the third point, Luqman exemplifies how each of the values ​​the principle of religious teachings more effective if delivered with accompanying strong arguments. Luqman education is comprehensive and complete education that includes the principles of doctrinal camps, worship, morality and propaganda. That's why God has merekamkan Luqman education was to serve as an example to Muslims throughout the ages. But beyond that, the story of Luqman also opened our eyes, that in Islam, children's education is not an absolute obligation of the mother, but also the father. Hopefully we can become a "Luqman" for our children! http://cahaya-islam.com/index2.php?option=com_content&do_pdf=1&id=44 Rukhsah in Kids Games If the range than the statue was not intended to be respectable and not glorified exaggerated and there is not an element of the ban on top, so in this case Islam will not be bersempit chest and did not consider it a sin. For example, children's games in the form of bride-pengantinan, cat and mouse, and other animals. The sculptures are all just a portrayal for the game and entertain the children. Therefore Ayesha said, which means: "I used to play around with young chicks women (female dolls) on the Messenger of Allah and my friends come to me, then they hide the dolls because of fear of the Prophet Muhammad., but the Prophet Muhammad were happy with the arrival of my friends were, then they play with me. "(History Hadith Bukhari and Muslim) And another narration, which means: "Verily the Prophet one day said to Aisha:" What's this? ". Aisha replied: "This is my daughters (doll sister), then the Prophet asked again:" What's in the middle of it? ". Aisha replied: "Horses". He asked again: "What's on it?". Aisha replied: "That's two wings." Rasulullah said: "Is there a winged horse?". Aisha replied: "Is it not you hear that Sulaiman bin Daud U.S. has a horse that has some wings?". Then the Messenger of Allah laughed so visible molar teeth. "(Reported by Abu Daud) The definition of girls in the above hadith is commonly used bridal doll games by young children. Medium Aisha was still very young. Syaukani Imam said: "This hadeeth indicates that young children can play with the doll (sculpture). But Imam Malik forbids a man who would buy a doll for his daughter. And Qadi Iyadh argued that girls play with dolls she was a rukhsah (waivers). Includes the same as children's games, namely sculpture-venture made of cakes and sold on the big day (holiday) and so on then no longer the cookies are eaten. http://www.arrosa.net/news.cfm?id=4 "Do they think that wealth and children which We have given them (meaning that), we hasten to give the benefits to them? No, actually they are not aware. " (QS.Al Mu'minuun: 55-56) "So do not treasure their children and pull your heart. Verily Allah intends to (give) their belongings and children to torture them in the life of the world and will be flying their lives, were they in a state of infidels ". (QS.At Tauba: 55)

Question: Assalaamu'alaikum wr. wb. Caregiver Rubric initiated consultations God, I was one who converted to Islam since 1992 ago, before my Christian Catholic. Alhamdulillah, Allah has given me his guidance very big so I can follow the HAQ religion, namely Islam. With regard to the above, I have a very difficult question I swatch the answer, namely: View the five pillars of Islam, where such a pledge by saying two sentences creed is the first gate to go through someone who will embrace Islam. And it has me through safely, Alhamdulillah. The question is: Does someone of children born in a Muslim family, then automatically she also is Muslim? Although up to adult (or even until he died) he vowed never to utter two sentences creed, as I have done? So this question I have to say, please complete answer including the arguments that exist, so I was not wrong in being in the rearing of children. Hopefully nanny Consultation rubric is always in the protection and pleasure of Allah. Amen. Wassalaamualaikum wr. wb. - (Muhammad Yusuf Satria) Answer: Brother Muhammad Yusuf who loved God, Alhamdulillah, Allah has saved you from the darkness into the light guide the light rays. It was a very great pleasure which can not be exchanged even with everything in the world. Regarding your question, the Messenger of Allah. said in an authentic hadith, "Verily, each of which is born must be born in a state of nature (the sacred, embracing Islam). The two men who then made the child his parents were Jewish, Christian, or Zoroastrian (worshipers of fire). "See also Sura Al-A'raf 112, explaining that God had asked for testimony and pledge of a baby dikandungan that God is who should he worship. Based on the above hadith is understood that the babies born in the world, whatever the background of his parents, he is a baby who was born in a state of Islam. If then he grew up in a Muslim family, he is a Muslim and will remain a Muslim if he does not do the things that could cancel and abort become Muslim. But if he then did the Islamic cancel, substantially he was no longer a Muslim, although he holds a degree or recognized as a Muslim. Actually to be considered a Muslim, one is not enough just to say the creed alone. But he must carry out all its consequences as a Muslim. Because Islam or any faith is to include the belief and justification in the liver, with a verbal pledge, and applied in real action. As must fulfill the obligation of prayer, fasting, good must have a certain character, and others. May God always bestow peace, love and blessing to you and your family, and may Allah always guide us into His blessed path. Amen. And Allaah knows best. ISLAMIC CENTER OF INFORMATION AND COMMUNICATION INDONESIA - www.alislam.or.id "Do they think that wealth and children which We have given them (meaning that), we hasten to give the benefits to them? No, actually they are not aware. "(Surat al Mu'minuun: 55-56) "Know that this world is real life and a game that neglect, jewelry and boast of you and proud of pride about the many wealth and children, such as rain-crop planting farmers amazing, then the plant becomes dry and you see yellow color and then be destroyed. And in the Hereafter (later) there is a harsh punishment and forgiveness from God and His good pleasure. And the life of this world is nothing but a deceptive pleasure. " (QS.Al-Hadid: 20)


 

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